How things change

It's amazing to me that you can be so attracted to someone for so long; than out of no where, you gain a few pounds, and you are no longer good enough to have sex with. How does that happen? When does being in a relationship mean that you cannot get comfortable? How can you be so fine to others, but your own partner finds you so disgusting that they cannot even keep an erection when you are together? Wow, that sucks, how do you work through that? How can you deal that type of rejection? Who is that strong? I would like to know, who can look their partner in the eyes again after being told...without so many words; you are not attractive enough to me to make love anymore?! When does your love stop being foolish and reality sets in and you don't accept being good enough, instead of the best?! It doesn't make sense and it doesn't work after those words are said. You cannot take back rejection! You cannot become attracted to someone after feeling like they were not good enough; you cannot change those facts. It has to end, no matter how much it hurts.