When do problems of one party in the relationship begin to negatively affect the other? Sometimes when one person in the relationship is going through changes or is beginning to question how they feel, and they express this to the other party, it begins to change things. Deciding to work it out is one thing, but putting in the REAL effort to change things is another. Can you just say I love you and I don't want to lose you and it's supposed to make things better?
Can you remove the doubts, fear or hesitation your partner now feels because of what has been said? No, but the qustion now becomes, should you have said anything? Who knows. The issue now becomes where you do you go from here? Is it worth trying to fix. You have to decide. Do you TRUELY love this person enough to work things out? This can be a difficult dilemma, especially when it feels like you may be growing apart.
You may begin to have feelings for another person who you think you are connecting to, but it's really because you are losing that connection with your partner. How do you come back from that? This is an individual or couples issue, and noone else can answer this but the two persons in the relationship. Good luck.
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